For Parents of Young Actors

Balancing school and an acting career

By Freya Tingley 2 min read

Balancing school and an acting career is mostly a problem of time and negotiation. On paper it is tractable: acting work is episodic, school is continuous, and most productions are required by law to provide tutors for minors. In practice, it is harder, because the negotiation sits with the parent, not the production. This article covers what to negotiate with the school, what the production is required to provide, and how to plan a term when your child is on a shoot.

What to negotiate with your child's school

Negotiate ahead of need. The worst time to have the conversation with a school is on the morning the child is cast and the shoot starts next week.

Ask for a written acknowledgement that the child may be absent for professional work, and that absences are treated as authorised. Ask for a liaison teacher who keeps track of the work the child is missing and provides it in advance.

Expect the school to negotiate. Schools worry about attendance statistics and about the precedent of high-profile absences. Address those worries directly.

What the production is required to provide

In most jurisdictions, a production working with minors is required to provide on-set tutoring, limits on working hours, and rest breaks.

The specifics vary. In many places the production is required to provide a dedicated tutor for each school-age child on set. In others, a shared tutor across the production is sufficient. Know what your jurisdiction requires and hold the production to it.

Tutors on set: what good looks like

A good on-set tutor has a teaching qualification, has worked on other productions with minors, and is prepared to liaise with the child's regular school. A good tutor is also a third, independent adult in the room whose first loyalty is the child's education, not the production schedule.

A bad on-set tutor is a warm body whose job is to keep the child quiet between takes. Ask for the tutor's qualifications and references before filming starts.

Signs the balance is slipping (for parents who need to hear this)

The child is falling behind in school and the production is not providing enough time to catch up. The child is sleeping less and resting less between shoots. The child's friendship group at school is eroding and the child is not making new friends on set.

The child is talking about acting less than before, or is describing it in language that sounds like performance rather than enjoyment.

If any of these are true for more than a short period, the balance needs recalibration. Sometimes the recalibration is as simple as a longer break between projects. Sometimes it is stopping for a year.

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